Samuel's Story
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Weight: 4 lbs 5 oz
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Length: 17 ½"
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Samuel
arrived at 3:30 pm on Friday May 7, 1999 and was lovingly welcomed by his mom
and dad, Sue and Steve, and his grandparents Bob and Rita. His big brother,
Steven who turned 3 in January was at a family friend's home (Aunt Julie's) not
too far from the hospital. His grandparents Nick and Oneta, his aunts and uncles
among many others came by a little later. His arrival was about three weeks
earlier than expected but no less joyous than expected. Steve was the only one
who had a chance to hold him right away. Sue saw him for a brief moment right
after birth and Bob and Rita saw him in the nursery through the glass.
His name
had been chosen some time before. An ultrasound at Christmas time had shown he
was a he. Sue and especially Steve wanted to keep the family all S's and there
was some talk his name might be Shane. Steven has a child's bible with the story
of Samuel helping Eli and hearing the Lord call him. Steven can recite the
stories himself and when mom and dad heard Steven saying the part of the Lord -
'SAMUEL, SAMUEL' - the name was chosen. His middle name Ray is honoring a
maternal uncle who passed away as a boy from brain cancer.
The joy
of his arrival soon gave way to great concern; however, when the doctor informed
them that Samuel was having difficulty breathing and he didn't 'like his color'
and that a specialist had been called to examine him.
As the
tests and examinations began, so did the prayers. Samuel's physical family was
joined by their church family with prayers for Samuel's safety and survival.
But God
was already guarding "Our Little Miracle." Normal tests and scans
during the pregnancy had not shown any problems. As time drew near for Samuel's
arrival, he didn't seem to want to "cooperate." Samuel was turned and
was not in the right position for the delivery.
Samuel
was delivered by cesarean section as a result - and according to God's plan. The
doctors, looking back, said that Samuel's condition would have made it less
likely that he could have survived the stress of a "normal" delivery.
Samuel
was transferred to the Children's Hospital of Michigan in Detroit after Sue held
him only a few moments in her room late Friday night. A number of tests were
conducted Saturday and Monday, and each time, the results fell into the
"bad news" range. Sue was discharged Sunday night and got to hold
Samuel Monday morning before his catherization, which was a risky procedure in
and of itself. After all the specialists had conducted all the tests and
reviewed all the results, Samuel's problem had a name - pulmonary atresia with
intact septum and stenotic coronary arteries.
Samuel's
problem also had a solution - a heart transplant. In a meeting held Tuesday
afternoon - with all the extended family, the minister and his wife and the
transplant team - all the options and prognosis were examined and the risks and
complications and responsibilities of a heart transplant were explained. After
prayerful consideration, Samuel was placed on the National Donor Registry list
on Wednesday May 12, and the wait for a new heart for Samuel began.
Not
satisfied just to sit by and pray and wait, Steve and Sue joined with the
Children's Hospital of Michigan and held a press conference. They told the TV
and newspaper reporters all about Samuel and his condition and the need for a
new heart for Samuel. They also asked for prayers on Samuel's behalf. They knew
the more people that were aware of Samuel's need, the greater the chance that
someone would make the decision to donate if faced with that decision. Even if
Samuel wasn't helped directly, Steve and Sue knew organ donor awareness was
important and the press conference might help others waiting.
As much
as they wanted Samuel to get the heart he needed, Sue and Steve were torn
emotionally about that prospect. They knew that for Samuel to get
that heart, another child would die and another family would have to endure that
loss. Every day they prayed for a new heart for Samuel, and every day they
prayed for comfort and strength for that family that would face the loss of a
child if God's plan was to answer their prayers with a new heart for Sammy.
But they
also realized that the heart they needed for Samuel might not come. They were in
a race with time and were told that about half of the children Sammy's size die
waiting for a suitable heart. Sue and Steve decided that if this was Samuel's
fate, they wanted his life to make a difference in someone else's life. They
wanted to help save others by donating his organs.
The
second most critical factor for Samuel was his size. At less than 4½ pounds his
chance of surviving major surgery wasn't good. He was immediately put on a high
calorie, high fat diet. In his first two months Samuel gained an average of
about an ounce a day.
Sue and
Steve began their wait, trying to maintain a fairly normal life for Steven, with
help from family and friends to help watch over the two boys. They divided their
time between hospital and home - never out of touch with a beeper that will call
them quickly to Sammy's side when the heart they wait for becomes available. A
team of doctors stand by - waiting for the word that a heart for Samuel has been
found.
Late on
the night of July 6, that word came. Steve was with Samuel when the call came
from the transplant doctor that a possible match was found. He immediately
called Sue, and she called her parents Bob and Rita who came over to stay with
Steven, and she joined Steve at Samuel's bedside in the NICU.
As the
doctors prepared and made the trip south to retrieve the heart, Sue and Steve
spent the time holding Samuel. There were no guarantees that the surgery would
be successful, and their time with Samuel could quickly come to an end. Around
4:00 a.m. the word came that the heart was a good match and surgery was a 'go'.
At 5:00 a.m.
on July 7, Samuel's surgery began. Over the next eight hours, the doctors worked
transplanting the tiny heart that was Samuel's hope for life. Sue and Steve,
their family and friends, spent those hours praying. They asked for God to guide
the hands of the surgeons as they worked on Samuel. They prayed for strength for
Sammy to survive the surgery and the recovery. They prayed for God to comfort
another family they did not yet know - all they knew about the donor was that
they were about the same in size - around seven pounds.
There
were a few tense moments when the new heart didn't seem to want to restart for
Samuel, but God smiled down again - with a special little angel by His side -
and all turned out well. On the two-month anniversary of his birth, Samuel
received a most wonderful gift - the gift of life.
Samuel
was basically unconscious for a few days - the most critical stage. His body
needed time to heal so the doctors didn't want him to move. His vital signs were
monitored constantly and medications - which numbered a couple dozen at first -
were tweaked to keep them in acceptable ranges. There were tubes and wires
everywhere. About two weeks after surgery Samuel was up to moving to a new room
where his care was less intensive. Sue and Steve had to learn precisely how to
draw his life-maintaining medications and Samuel had to eat better from a bottle
- he had been on a feeding tube since surgery.
About
this time, they held another press conference to let everyone know Samuel had
received his heart and was doing well. Sue stayed with Samuel and cared for him.
Steve thanked the donor family first - even though at this point all he knew is
that they were in a southern state. He thanked the surgeons and hospital staff
for their incredible work and dedication to saving Samuel's life. He thanked
everyone for their prayers and support.
Samuel's
condition steadily improved and on July 31, Samuel got to go home - only three
and a half weeks after surgery, with no signs of rejection. Samuel will have to
take anti-rejection drugs for the rest of his life, along with having to have
regular visits to the doctor to check for any problems with his new heart.
Samuel is expected to live a long and healthy life.
As hard
to bear as all of this might seem, the Lord blessed Samuel and his family all
along the way. Samuel was never in grave danger except in surgery. His family
was able to hold him nearly every day - feeding him and changing his diapers.
All along the way they met other families in far worse situations - those who
had children in critical condition and worse. They had incredible support from
family, friends and church family. Thousands of prayers were offered daily by
those who knew them and by perfect strangers from all across the country.
Steve's job approved an FMLA leave of absence so he could be with Samuel and
still receive 100% pay from his sick bank.
Then God
sent a very special angel named Maclaine. One who very much like Jesus, couldn't
hold on to this earthly life - so she gave the incredible gift of life to a
little baby boy, who without her wonderful gift, would have surely died.

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